Random...

o.O just became someone's love advisor just now... i dont know why this fella will choose me(let this fella be "P"), but normally i would be "zadao" by the problems and dont know how to ans P. HOWEVER, this time i understand P's problem because somehow i'm in the same situation.. haha..

P wonders whether P should put in effort when the relationship looks impossible to be. Well, i think, as well as u tried, that's enough. Just let the thing go on, because u can't control what happen next. Not that u'll get reward for every single effort that u put into. This kinda matter include both person, so the result doesn't depend on how much did u work on, but depend on the other person too. Don't put too much hopes or high expectation. The higher the expectation, the bigger the dissapointment (lol. dont ask me why this line comes out AGAIN. I just think that this line is so true. XD). When you dont expect that much, even a lil "reward" u get will make u happy for so long. Eg, when another person did something that give u an illusion that he/she feels the same to u. Even though it mayb just an imagination, but it's happier to imagine sometimes, rather that thinking "owh, this is so impossible, why am i wasting my time?" and so on.............................................

wuu... emo post to go!!! hahaha................................. >.< ! ! [this is the reason y i dont wan too many ppl to know abt the blog lar. Ppl'll tot i'm soooooooooooo love sick.. (like i am, huh?)]

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